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Tuesday 4 December 2012

Things to keep in mind before reprimanding your boyfriend or husband

I know many such women, who do not hesitate to rebuke their boyfriend or husband in public. This sometimes leads to breakup of their relationship. Thus, I think that it is necessary for both woman and man to respect each other and restrain themself from any such situation that can lead to the end of their relationship. It happens many times that you do not agree with your husband or boyfriend over a certain point, then it is better to note his mood before starting a talk over the topic of disagreement.

I will suggest that you should show sensitivity to his emotional state.  It is better to keep him in a state of calm and not too happy or sad. If your partner is happy, then it is better not to reprimand him, rather you should become a part of their happiness. You must also not reprimand him in front of his family members or friends or publicly. It can hurt his male ego.

You can also start with praise, because we all love to be praised. Before giving any comments, you should calm down the atmosphere a bit. Then, let the praise unfold and sound sincere. If you reprimand, then it means that you have a solution to the criticism or reproach. If you do not have suggestions or ideas to improve or solve problems, then it is better not to reprimand.  Any reprimand without the solution can be considered as unfounded criticism or very simply 'condemned'.

Thus, avoid all such circumstances that can adversely affect your relationship.

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